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Events

Upcoming Events

  • NM-REAL Social Learn and Play (SLaP)
    NM-REAL Social Learn and Play (SLaP)
    Multiple Dates
    16 days to the event
    Fri, Jun 19
    Albuquerque
    Jun 19, 2026, 6:00 PM – Jun 20, 2026, 1:00 AM
    Albuquerque, Albuquerque, NM, USA
    NM-REAL SLaP is a monthly Kink Social, Learning, and sex-positive Play event for those that crave excitement, education, and exploration in our community. SLaP events will be held most months on the third Friday. Stop letting reality slap you in the face! It’s more fun to choose your own reality
  • Kinky/BDSM First Aid / CPR / AED Training Class
    Kinky/BDSM First Aid / CPR / AED Training Class
    24 days to the event
    Sat, Jun 27
    Wired Events
    Jun 27, 2026, 12:30 PM – 4:30 PM MDT
    Wired Events, 3766 Hawkins St NE, Albuquerque, NM 87109, USA
    Learn practical skills to respond to injuries, breathing emergencies, and cardiac events, with a focus on real-world situations our leather, kink, and alternative lifestyle communities may face.
  • NM-REAL General Membership Meeting
    NM-REAL General Membership Meeting
    Multiple Dates
    25 days to the event
    Sun, Jun 28
    Zoom Meeting
    Jun 28, 2026, 7:00 PM – 8:00 PM MDT
    Zoom Meeting
    Monthly General Membership Meeting of NM-REAL, Inc. Stop by to see what's going on, ask questions!
  • Low Sensory Leather Social
    Low Sensory Leather Social
    Multiple Dates
    31 days to the event
    Sat, Jul 04
    Sidewinders Bar and Grill
    Jul 04, 2026, 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM MDT
    Sidewinders Bar and Grill, 4200 Central Ave SE, Albuquerque, NM 87108, USA
  • Free NM Leather & Kink Fair - Vendors, Classes, Socials
    Free NM Leather & Kink Fair - Vendors, Classes, Socials
    44 days to the event
    Fri, Jul 17
    Wired Events
    Jul 17, 2026, 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM MDT
    Wired Events, 3766 Hawkins St NE, Albuquerque, NM 87109, USA
    A 3-hour free 18+ event to explore vendors, socialize, and take classes.
  • Kinktoberfest 2026
    Kinktoberfest 2026
    135 days to the event
    Fri, Oct 16
    Purgatory Facility
    Oct 16, 2026, 6:00 PM – Oct 18, 2026, 5:00 PM
    Purgatory Facility, Albuquerque, NM, USA
    KinkToberFest is an immersive, inclusive, and exhilarating four-day journey of discovery, connection, and play—brought to you by NM-REAL, Inc. and our vibrant community of collaborators. There’s something at KinkToberFest for everyone 21+ who craves excitement, education, and exploration.

Look For These Events

NM-REAL holds events that you may find in the list above.

  • Kinktoberfest - Yearly, in October or November (main event).  See Kinktoberfest.com.

    • Our largest event.  Friday evening events (2-3), and an all-weekend event.​

  • New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair - See nmlkf.com.

    • Largest event in April - A one-day event like Kinktoberfest.​

    • Other smaller events throughout the year.  One will represent our vendor fair at Kinktoberfest.

  • SLaP! (Social Learn and Play)

    • An evening event with one set of classes and a play party. Similar to a Kinktoberfest warmup event.  Every 3rd Friday unless there is another conflicting event like Kinktoberfest or NMLKF.​

  • Low Sensory Leather Social - Usually (but not always) 7-9 pm on the 1st Saturday of the Month at a local bar.

  • Sober Social - As scheduled, see Upcoming Events

  • Membership Meetings

  • Board Meetings

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We provide education and events for members and the public in alternative lifestyles to promote respect, ethics, and acceptance, and the creation of safe space.  We pursue charitable causes including rights advocacy, scholarship, community awareness, and volunteerism.

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