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Events

Upcoming Events

  • NM-REAL General Membership Meeting
    NM-REAL General Membership Meeting
    Multiple Dates
    21 days to the event
    Sun, Sep 27
    Zoom Meeting
    Sep 27, 2026, 7:00 PM – 8:00 PM MDT
    Zoom Meeting
    Monthly General Membership Meeting of NM-REAL, Inc. Stop by to see what's going on, ask questions!
  • Kinktoberfest 2026 - Warm Up Oct 2nd
    Kinktoberfest 2026 - Warm Up Oct 2nd
    26 days to the event
    Fri, Oct 02
    Purgatory Facility
    Oct 02, 2026, 6:00 PM – Oct 03, 2026, 1:00 AM
    Purgatory Facility, Albuquerque, NM, USA
    KinkToberFest is an immersive, inclusive, and exhilarating four-day journey of discovery, connection, and play—brought to you by NM-REAL, Inc. and our vibrant community of collaborators. There’s something at KinkToberFest for everyone 21+ who craves excitement, education, and exploration.
  • Kinktoberfest 2026 - Warm Up Oct 9th
    Kinktoberfest 2026 - Warm Up Oct 9th
    33 days to the event
    Fri, Oct 09
    Purgatory Facility
    Oct 09, 2026, 6:00 PM – Oct 10, 2026, 1:00 AM
    Purgatory Facility, Albuquerque, NM, USA
    KinkToberFest is an immersive, inclusive, and exhilarating four-day journey of discovery, connection, and play—brought to you by NM-REAL, Inc. and our vibrant community of collaborators. There’s something at KinkToberFest for everyone 21+ who craves excitement, education, and exploration.
  • Kinktoberfest 2026 - Free Evening Vendor Educator Social
    Kinktoberfest 2026 - Free Evening Vendor Educator Social
    40 days to the event
    Fri, Oct 16
    Purgatory Facility
    Oct 16, 2026, 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM
    Purgatory Facility, Albuquerque, NM, USA
    KinkToberFest is an immersive, inclusive, and exhilarating four-day journey of discovery, connection, and play—brought to you by NM-REAL, Inc. and our vibrant community of collaborators. There’s something at KinkToberFest for everyone 21+ who craves excitement, education, and exploration.
  • Kinktoberfest 2026 - Main Event
    Kinktoberfest 2026 - Main Event
    41 days to the event
    Sat, Oct 17
    Purgatory Facility
    Oct 17, 2026, 9:00 AM – Oct 18, 2026, 5:00 PM
    Purgatory Facility, Albuquerque, NM, USA
    KinkToberFest is an immersive, inclusive, and exhilarating four-day journey of discovery, connection, and play—brought to you by NM-REAL, Inc. and our vibrant community of collaborators. There’s something at KinkToberFest for everyone 21+ who craves excitement, education, and exploration.
  • Low Sensory Leather Social
    Low Sensory Leather Social
    Multiple Dates
    62 days to the event
    Sat, Nov 07
    Sidewinders Bar and Grill
    Nov 07, 2026, 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM MST
    Sidewinders Bar and Grill, 4200 Central Ave SE, Albuquerque, NM 87108, USA
  • NM-REAL Social Learn and Play (SLaP)
    NM-REAL Social Learn and Play (SLaP)
    Multiple Dates
    75 days to the event
    Fri, Nov 20
    Albuquerque
    Nov 20, 2026, 5:30 PM – Nov 21, 2026, 12:30 AM
    Albuquerque, Albuquerque, NM, USA
    NM-REAL SLaP is a monthly Kink Social, Learning, and sex-positive Play event for those that crave excitement, education, and exploration in our community. SLaP events will be held most months on the third Friday. Stop letting reality slap you in the face! It’s more fun to choose your own reality

Look For These Events

NM-REAL holds events that you may find in the list above.

  • Kinktoberfest - Yearly, in October or November (main event).  See Kinktoberfest.com.

    • Our largest event.  Friday evening events (2-3), and an all-weekend event.​

  • New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair - See nmlkf.com.

    • Largest event in April - A one-day event like Kinktoberfest.​

    • Other smaller events throughout the year.  One will represent our vendor fair at Kinktoberfest.

  • SLaP! (Social Learn and Play)

    • An evening event with one set of classes and a play party. Similar to a Kinktoberfest warmup event.  Every 3rd Friday unless there is another conflicting event like Kinktoberfest or NMLKF.​

  • Low Sensory Leather Social - Usually (but not always) 7-9 pm on the 1st Saturday of the Month at a local bar.

  • Sober Social - As scheduled, this event is currently on pause.

  • Used & Abused: A Kinky Sale, Swap, Social - held periodically for you to sell items you no longer need and find the perfect kinky bargain you've been looking to find.

  • Membership Meetings

  • Board Meetings

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NM-REAL, Inc.

We provide education and events for members and the public in alternative lifestyles to promote respect, ethics, and acceptance, and the creation of safe space.  We pursue charitable causes including rights advocacy, scholarship, community awareness, and volunteerism.

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