NM-REAL holds events that you may find in the list above.

• Kinktoberfest - Yearly, in October or November (main event).  See Kinktoberfest.com.

  • Our largest event.  Friday evening events (2-3), and an all-weekend event.​

• New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair - See nmlkf.com.

  • Largest event in April - A one-day event like Kinktoberfest.​

  • Other smaller events throughout the year.  One will represent our vendor fair at Kinktoberfest.

• SLaP! (Social Learn and Play)

  • An evening event with one set of classes and a play party. Similar to a Kinktoberfest warmup event.  Every 3rd Friday unless there is another conflicting event like Kinktoberfest or NMLKF.​

• Low Sensory Leather Social - Usually (but not always) 7-9 pm on the 1st Saturday of the Month at a local bar.

• Sober Social - As scheduled, this event is currently on pause.

• Used & Abused: A Kinky Sale, Swap, Social - held periodically for you to sell items you no longer need and find the perfect kinky bargain you've been looking to find.

• Membership Meetings

• Board Meetings