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Social Learn and Play! (SLaP!) Friday 16 Jan 2026... We had two instructors, Travis Wilson and Amy on Wax Play the Travis Way and Mistress Glow in Over the Knee Spanking, with that got the whole class SLaP happy! There was also a wax scene in the medical room. All followed by a play party. Check out nm-real dot org, SpectrumABQ or Purgatory Dungeon for more events every third Friday. The next event will be on Friday February 20th. It will include a class on chastity/caging,

Thanks everyone for helping with NM-REAL's success in 2025! We wish you a wonderful 2026. Look forward to seeing you at our events in 2026 and having a lot more fun! Some of the ongoing and upcoming events you can check out: Kinktoberfest - Yearly, in October or November (main event). See Kinktoberfest.com. Our largest event. Friday evening events (2-3), and an all-weekend event.​ New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair - See nmlkf.com. Largest event in April - A one-day event like

The Shop on NM-REAL's website is now open with a small number of items. Get your Kinky Panache on at the NM-REAL Shop! We'll be adding more items as we move forward. For the logo items being sold, this is a great place to show off your interest and connection to the NM-REAL organization. There will also be other leather & kink related items that will join the collection over time that are from partnerships and individual artisans from the community. Many of the items are l

NM-REAL Social Learn and Play! (SLaP!) NM-REAL SLaP! is a monthly Kink Social, Learning, and sex-positive Play event for those that crave excitement, education, and exploration in our community. SLaP! events will be held most months on the third Friday. Stop letting reality slap you in the face! It’s more fun to choose your own reality at SLaP! Schedule for Friday SLaP! Events 630-8 pm: Education, 1-3 classes (check ad for each event) 8 pm - 1 am: Sex-positive Kink/BDSM Play

Kinktoberfest 2025-- Amazing. The energy there was awesome, beyond our expectations. Thanks to the facility owners, NM-REAL, volunteer coordinator, and volunteers, amazing educators - both local and national, two great event photographers, our bootblack, many very cool vendors. Special thanks to the attendees for the energy you brought to create community! You can see memories in images, videos, and descriptions of Kinktoberfest 2025 at the event website, Kinktoberfest.com ,

Master/Daddy Stan and slavegirl laura, along with kathryn, lead AEL (Alternative Erotic Lifestyles), the longest running kink...

Kinktoberfest 2025 Instructor Announcement: Gregg (he/him) Gregg is a graduate from the North American Bay NVC Leadership Program, with...

TwiztedMagic & OtherKitty, have had a tying partnership for over a year, that has been absolutely magical! Their rope bondage approach...

Amber has been an out leatherdyke since 1973. She is passionate about ethics and safety in the community. She’s presented on many...

Instructor: David, co-owner Limax Baccus Toys David of Limax Baccus, a small 2-person team based in Albuquerque that creates art and sex...

Mufasa Ali is a founder of the Men of ONYX, ONYX National Council Chairman Emeritus, Patriarch of Mufasa's Pride, Leather History...

Master Cat is a leader in the kink, BDSM, and leather communities, with 30+ years of experience that began in the San Fracisco leather...

Knotty Futos and his submissive, Tease are Shibari Addicts. Both have been in the Shibari community for over six years, and are owners of...

Instructor Announcement: Bear Mike. Bear Mike, Poppa Savant Onyx, co-head of house, Domum Corium Cordis, is VP of NM-REAL (New Mexico...

Kinktoberfest 2025 - Instructor Announcement Instructors: Travis Wilson & Amy Travis has over 35 years’ experience in the Leather/BDSM...

Kinktoberfest 2025, Albuquerque, NM Kink • Leather • Community • Inclusion • Education • Socials • Play • BDSM • Artisans   Visit...

Master Leather Redux and Raea hail from the Windy City. They are the Co-Directors for MAsT Chicago, along with CayceStahr. Education and...

A great fall kink celebration is coming to Albuquerque! Our alternative community is at the heart of NM-REAL (New Mexico Respect Ethics...

NM-REAL is excited to announce our first sober-aware social, on July 16th, 7-9 pm, hosted by and the inspiration of board member Chris,...

Our first Low Sensory Leather Social (LSLS) was a success this last Saturday, February 15th, with about 30+ attendees. Three NM-REAL...