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Have fun, get back to basics at SLaP! Monthly 3rd Fridays Check details at NMLeatherKinkFair.com ! Next event is Friday February 20th. 6-8pm: Classes 8-9pm: Fantasies 8pm-1am: S+ Play Party Albuquerque @ Purgatory/Spectrum Social Time • Relax • Watch • Participate Kinky • Alternative • BDSM Smoking/Vape Tent • Low Volume Music Pick a class • Learn • Share • Meet Others Potential Fantasy Entertainment S+ Play Party - Space & Equipment $25 Entry, no membership required. (

See nmleatherkinkfair.com . Produced by LeatherHeart and sponsored by NM-REAL. Tickets available now. Free entry, no ticket required on April 10th 6-9 pm for the vendor visit and social. Educator Announcement Educator: DCPaH (Duke City Pups and Handlers) Duke City Pups and Handlers (DCPAH) was created to bring pups and handlers in the New Mexico and surrounding areas together. Our events are welcoming to everyone, no matter how you identify. We have monthly moshes and non-ba

New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair, 10-11 Apr 2026 See nmleatherkinkfair.com . Produced by LeatherHeart and sponsored by NM-REAL. Tickets available now. Free entry, no ticket required on April 10th 6-9 pm for the vendor visit and social. Educator Announcement Educator: Ms. Unique Ms. Unique has been the lifestyle since she turned 18 years old, while living in SoCal. She moved to AZ in June of 2013. She started a DD/lg dynamic with Master Yeti December 2013, started to understand

New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair, 10-11 Apr 2026 See nmleatherkinkfair.com . Produced by LeatherHeart and sponsored by NM-REAL. Tickets available now. Free access to vendors on evening of Friday Apr 10th, 2026. Vendor Announcement Vendor: Master Yeti's Toys Introducing Our Exquisite Collection of High-Quality BDSM Toys and Kink Furniture! At Master Yeti's Toys, we take immense pleasure in catering to the diverse desires and passions within the world of BDSM and kink. As the le

New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair, 10-11 Apr 2026 See nmleatherkinkfair.com . Produced by LeatherHeart and sponsored by NM-REAL. Tickets available now. Free access to vendors on evening of Friday Apr 10th, 2026. Vendor Announcement Vendor: Bootblack - boy Xitan Bootblacking isn't just for boots! Leather toys, vests, chaps and more can use a bootblack’s touch to keep them in working and perfect condition! Bring your toys, boots, clothing and more to Xtian to give them the attent

See nmleatherkinkfair.com . Produced by LeatherHeart and sponsored by NM-REAL. Tickets available now. Free access to vendors on evening of Friday Apr 10th, 2026. Vendor Announcement Vendor: Ana's Play House Mistress Glow’s Pro Series of custom BDSM tools was born through experience. As a professional Dominatrix with a passion for impact play, she found herself frustrated with expensive floggers that couldn’t withstand the force of long-term use. This led her to create a line

See nmleatherkinkfair.com . Produced by LeatherHeart and sponsored by NM-REAL. Tickets available now. Free access to vendors on evening of Friday Apr 10th, 2026. Vendor Announcement Vendor: Boarderland Bondage Borderland Bondage, in Anthony, TX, hold many Shibari events in El Paso, TX and Las Cruces, NM and sells related products at events and their website. They strive to create a safe space to learn, connect, and play all things Shibari, a rope bondage with many styles. T

See nmleatherkinkfair.com . Produced by LeatherHeart and sponsored by NM-REAL. Tickets available now. Free entry, no tickets required for Friday evening 10 April to see the vendors and socialize. Vendor Announcement Vendor: House of the Rabbit (Justin) House of the Rabbit (HOTR) is a Black-owned premium leather shop creating unforgettable wearable art. Every piece is hand-cut, stitched, and finished with meticulous care, using only hand-selected hides chosen by Justin himsel

New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair, 10-11 Apr 2026 See nmleatherkinkfair.com. Produced by LeatherHeart  and sponsored by NM-REAL. Tickets available now. Friday evening event, 10 April, is free to the public to see vendors and socalize. Educator Announcement Educator: Medusa Onyx Medusa Onyx, also Julian, is a founding member of Onyx High Desert chapter of ONYX Men, an international leather organization. Born and raised in New Mexico, he has been part of the leather and kink com

New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair, 10-11 Apr 2026 See nmleatherkinkfair.com . Produced by and sponsored by NM-REAL. Tickets available now. Free entry into Vendor Fair on Friday evening, April 10th. Educator Announcement Educator: Dawn Dawn, wandering to us most recently from Delaware, is a nationally recognized, trauma-informed sex educator, presenter, podcaster, and author with over twenty years of experience. She is host of the longest-running kink podcast, "Erotic Awakening"

Educator: Hardy Haberman Hardy Haberman is from Dallas, Texas. He has been active in the leather community since the mid-70’s, and a member of many BDSM.Fetish organizations including Dallas Motorcycle Club, NLA-Dallas and a founding member of Inquisition-Dallas. Considering himself a "Pain Technologist" he specializes in CBT and has an unusual fondness for clips clamps and clothespins, as well as more esoteric SM play. Professionally he is a marketing specialist and filmmake

Social Learn and Play! (SLaP!) Friday 16 Jan 2026... We had two instructors, Travis Wilson and Amy on Wax Play the Travis Way and Mistress Glow in Over the Knee Spanking, with that got the whole class SLaP happy! There was also a wax scene in the medical room. All followed by a play party. Check out nm-real dot org, SpectrumABQ or Purgatory Dungeon for more events every third Friday. The next event will be on Friday February 20th. It will include a class on chastity/caging,

Thanks everyone for helping with NM-REAL's success in 2025! We wish you a wonderful 2026. Look forward to seeing you at our events in 2026 and having a lot more fun! Some of the ongoing and upcoming events you can check out: Kinktoberfest - Yearly, in October or November (main event). See Kinktoberfest.com. Our largest event. Friday evening events (2-3), and an all-weekend event.​ New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair - See nmlkf.com. Largest event in April - A one-day event like

The Shop on NM-REAL's website is now open with a small number of items. Get your Kinky Panache on at the NM-REAL Shop! We'll be adding more items as we move forward. For the logo items being sold, this is a great place to show off your interest and connection to the NM-REAL organization. There will also be other leather & kink related items that will join the collection over time that are from partnerships and individual artisans from the community. Many of the items are l

NM-REAL Social Learn and Play! (SLaP!) NM-REAL SLaP! is a monthly Kink Social, Learning, and sex-positive Play event for those that crave excitement, education, and exploration in our community. SLaP! events will be held most months on the third Friday. Stop letting reality slap you in the face! It’s more fun to choose your own reality at SLaP! Schedule for Friday SLaP! Events 630-8 pm: Education, 1-3 classes (check ad for each event) 8 pm - 1 am: Sex-positive Kink/BDSM Play

Kinktoberfest 2025-- Amazing. The energy there was awesome, beyond our expectations. Thanks to the facility owners, NM-REAL, volunteer coordinator, and volunteers, amazing educators - both local and national, two great event photographers, our bootblack, many very cool vendors. Special thanks to the attendees for the energy you brought to create community! You can see memories in images, videos, and descriptions of Kinktoberfest 2025 at the event website, Kinktoberfest.com ,

Master/Daddy Stan and slavegirl laura, along with kathryn, lead AEL (Alternative Erotic Lifestyles), the longest running kink...

Kinktoberfest 2025 Instructor Announcement: Gregg (he/him) Gregg is a graduate from the North American Bay NVC Leadership Program, with...

TwiztedMagic & OtherKitty, have had a tying partnership for over a year, that has been absolutely magical! Their rope bondage approach...

Amber has been an out leatherdyke since 1973. She is passionate about ethics and safety in the community. She’s presented on many...