NM-REAL Social Learn and Play (SLaP)

NM-REAL SLaP is a monthly Kink Social, Learning, and sex-positive Play event for those that crave excitement, education, and exploration in our community. SLaP events will be held most months on the third Friday.  

Stop letting reality slap you in the face! It’s more fun to choose your own reality at SLaP!

Schedule for Friday SLaP Events

- 630-8 pm: Education, 1-3 classes (check ad for each event)

- 8 pm - 1 am: Sex-positive Kink/BDSM Play Party

Instructors This SLaP

TBD (check back!)

More about SLaP

Each month NM-REAL SLaP will have social time and space for social interaction, one to three classes, followed by a sex-positive play party.  Hang out and socialize, be a voyeur, be an exhibitionist.  One area will have low to moderate level volume house music – so you can hear each other.  Other areas will have quiet space to relax and talk.  Check out each event to see which educational activities will be held.  Our play time has both a larger pansexual play party spaces (beds, cabana’s, pan videos, and dungeon area) and a male-identifying only space – a room with beds and male videos.  Other focused spaces can be created if there is sufficient demand – let us know.  

All our events strive for safe space for all through attendee required behavior that is respectful, ethical, and inclusive.  Our space is for 21+ year olds, no alcohol or illegal drugs.  Outdoor space is available for vaping and smoking.

We hope you come to the whole event to socialize; however, you can also just attend the education or play sessions.  SLaP is brought to you by the partnership that produced Kinktoberfest 2025 and NM Leather & Kink Fair, including NM-REAL, Inc. – a charitable non-profit, and Purgatory Dungeon.  Check out nm-real.com, purgatorydungeon.com, Kinktoberfest.com, and NMLKF.com for more information about those organizations and events.

Cost

SLaP events are $25, no membership is required.  Discounted entry of $20 for members of NM-REAL or Purgatory Dungeon/Spectrum Parties.  Tickets available in advance or at the door!

16 January 2026 NM-REAL Thicket Link:  https://www.zeffy.com/en-US/ticketing/slap-social-learn-and-play-16jan26

How to Attend

You may obtain tickets from NM-REAL or Purgatory Dungeon in advance, or pay at the door.  You do not need membership at Purgatory Dungeon or membership in NM-REAL.  However, if you have membership, you can obtain a small discount.