Educator Announcement: Ms. Unique @ NM Leather & Kink Fair, 10-11 Apr 2026

New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair, 10-11 Apr 2026

See nmleatherkinkfair.com. Produced by LeatherHeart and sponsored by NM-REAL. Tickets available now. Free entry, no ticket required on April 10th 6-9 pm for the vendor visit and social.

Educator Announcement

Educator: Ms. Unique

Ms. Unique has been the lifestyle since she turned 18 years old, while living in SoCal. She moved to AZ in June of 2013. She started a DD/lg dynamic with Master Yeti December 2013, started to understand and appreciate ethical non-monogamy experiencing kitchen table poly. From there she started her leather journey, and began helping facilitate discussions and demos through the Dragon Clan, an established leather family. This led to her passion of teaching and sharing her knowledge in her own point of view. In 2023, she adopted a pup Leo “aka” Pup Goober. From there, she became a pup mosh coach, community leader, “kennel momma” to the AZ pup community. Adopted another pup named Trigger in 2024. She enjoys karaoke, reading, board/card games.

Classes:

(1) "Vetting in BDSM"

• We will explore what vetting has traditionally looked like within the kink and BDSM community, how those practices have evolved over time, and why vetting remains an essential skill today. We will walk through vetting an individual or group before entering a dynamic or ongoing relationship, as well as discuss pick-up play, scenes, and one-time encounters. Vetting is a proactive tool used to reduce risk and prevent future conflict by identifying potential misunderstandings, incompatibilities, red flags, or safety concerns before engagement occurs. While vetting is often discussed in the context of play and power exchange, it is not limited to scenes or sexual dynamics. Vetting is equally valuable in community-wide settings, such as choosing instructors, event hosts, vendors, organizers, collaborators, or spaces. This class will highlight how vetting practices may differ depending on context, while reinforcing the shared goal of fostering safer, more informed, and more aligned interactions—both in kink and in community involvement.

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(2) "Vetting in BDSM"

• When consent shakes hands with chaos, the dice take over—and suddenly fate has opinions. This class dives into a mischievous, chance-driven twist you can add to many BDSM scenes or dynamics, with our spotlight firmly on impact play. Born at the crossroads of Dungeons & Dragons nights and kinky creativity, this game uses just three dice to stir up anticipation, risk, and delicious uncertainty. The masochist “wins” by enduring the agreed number of rolls. The sadist wins if the masochist calls red first. We’ll cover safety, strategy, and the delicious mind games that come with surrendering control to chance—giving students everything they need to flirt responsibly with fate and let the dice be a little bit cruel.