Next SLaP! is Friday Feb 20th, 6 pm-1am!

Have fun, get back to basics at SLaP!

Monthly 3rd Fridays

Check details at NMLeatherKinkFair.com!

Next event is Friday February 20th.

6-8pm: Classes

8-9pm: Fantasies

8pm-1am: S+ Play Party

Albuquerque @ Purgatory/Spectrum

Social Time • Relax • Watch • Participate

Kinky • Alternative • BDSM

Smoking/Vape Tent • Low Volume Music

Pick a class • Learn • Share • Meet Others

Potential Fantasy Entertainment

S+ Play Party - Space & Equipment

$25 Entry, no membership required.

($20 discounted for members of NM-REAL

SpectrumABQ or Purgatory.)

Instructors This SLaP!

(1) Lockdown: Introduction to Chastity - by Vid

We invite curious, adventurous adults into a candid, hands-on exploration of male chastity devices within sex-positive, alternative communities. This class blends practical education with lived experience, creating a space that’s equal parts informative, playful, and unapologetically honest. Whether you’re new to cages or looking to deepen an established practice, you’ll gain a clear understanding of what chastity devices are, how they’re designed, and how different styles can support a wide range of power dynamics, sensations, and erotic intentions.

Format of the class is intentionally interactive. Alongside concise lecture segments, Vid will host a show-and-tell where students are encouraged to wear their own cages, share what works for them, and compare designs in a supportive, judgment-free environment. A selection of cages will also be available for trying on, allowing participants to explore fit, materials, and aesthetics firsthand. Nudity will be present, and consent, respect, and personal boundaries are foundational to the class.

Beyond the hardware, the class looks at why people choose chastity: themes of control and surrender, focus and denial, role exploration, and long-term dynamics. Practical considerations—measurement, comfort, hygiene, sourcing, and sustainability—round out the discussion so curiosity is paired with responsibility. Come ready to learn, observe, and engage with a topic that sits at the intersection of kink, intimacy, and intentional power exchange.

Vid is co-owner of Limax Baccus, a small 2-person team based on Albuquerque that creates art and sex toys. Started in 2024 from scratch, they have popped up in and around Albuquerque for various markets. From public art to profane parts, there's always something for everyone.

(2) Bedroom Bondage (Beyond just sex) - by Twizted Magic & otherKitty

Bondage can be so much more than restraint—it can be a slow, intoxicating dance of seduction, connection, and trust. In this class, we’ll explore how rope can heighten intimacy, deepen desire, and turn foreplay into an unforgettable experience. You’ll learn how to tease the mind as much as the body, using creative positions and sensual ties that invite both passion and playfulness. The Sommerville Bowline single column tie is your key to unlocking this workshop, so please arrive already familiar—whether from our 101 class, our YouTube channel, or your own practice. If you’re brand new to rope, we recommend starting with Rope Bondage 101 so you can fully savor everything this class has to offer. Bring your curiosity, your partner, and your desire to make the bedroom your playground.

TwiztedMagic & otherKitty, have had a tying partnership for a couple years, that has been absolutely magical! Their rope bondage approach has both Japanese and Western influences. They believe that a solid foundation of core principles and techniques is an essential key to learning. TwiztedMagic has put in thousands of hours in practice and application. otherKitty has about 2 years of Bottoming experience and has been learning to tie as well. They strive to maintain a learning and growth mindset as individuals and rope artists. Seeing a need in their community, they founded KnotScience_NM, an organization with the goal of creating change and furthering Rope Bondage education in New Mexico.

More about SLaP!

Each month NM-REAL SLaP will have social time and space for social interaction, one to three classes, followed by a sex-positive play party. Hang out and socialize, be a voyeur, be an exhibitionist. One area will have low to moderate level volume house music – so you can hear each other. Other areas will have quiet space to relax and talk. Check out each event to see which educational activities will be held. Our play time has both a larger pansexual play party spaces (beds, cabana’s, pan videos, and dungeon area) and a male-identifying only space – a room with beds and male videos. Other focused spaces can be created if there is sufficient demand – let us know.

All our events strive for safe space for all through attendee required behavior that is respectful, ethical, and inclusive. Our space is for 21+ year olds, no alcohol or illegal drugs. Outdoor space is available for vaping and smoking.

We hope you come to the whole event to socialize; however, you can also just attend the education or play sessions. SLaP is brought to you by the partnership that produced Kinktoberfest 2025 and NM Leather & Kink Fair, including NM-REAL, Inc. – a charitable non-profit, and Purgatory Dungeon. Check out nm-real.com, purgatorydungeon.com, Kinktoberfest.com, and NMLKF.com for more information about those organizations and events.

How to Attend

You may obtain tickets from NM-REAL or Purgatory Dungeon in advance, or pay at the door. You do not need membership at Purgatory Dungeon or membership in NM-REAL. However, if you have membership, you can obtain a small discount.

NM-REAL Ticket Link: https://www.zeffy.com/en-US/ticketing/slap-social-learn-and-play-20feb26

2026 Events

Feb 20, Mar 20, (not in Apr NML&KF), May 15, Jun 19, July 17, Aug 21, Sep 18, (not in Oct Kinktoberfest), Nov 20. We won’t hold SLaP events when we’re producing another similar large event such as Kinktoberfest and NM Leather & Kink Fair.