History of New Mexico Alternative Communities
Overview • Venues • Artisans • Groups • Events • Media • Individuals
History is a foundation that helps us approach the future with more understanding. Awareness of history helps us realize not just what came before us, but also understand how things have changed, are changing, what was attempted, successes, struggles, and the great time had by many in alternative lifestyle communities. It reminds us that time passes by quickly and to be sure to be kind as you travel through your journey through these alternative communities.
Events
Our community events are times to gather and celebrate our freedom to express our alternative lifestyles in safe spaces, socialize and enjoy. While many smaller, even recurring, events are held in our community by groups, venues, and individuals, we may not focus on those in this history. Here we will consider events that are stationary, nomadic - wandering locations with their clan. We also consider events that are so significant, that they stand alone from the group that runs them. These include title events. They might be owned by an individual and passed along over time, or move from group to group. Some events are more like groups, recurring without any overseeing organized structure other than the community service from an individual or set of people.
1984-1997
Hot Air - Motorcycle Men of NM (MMNM)
Motorcyclemen of New Mexico (MMNM) held a biker run in Albuquerque called "Hot Air" which was held at the same time of the year as the Albuquerque Balloon Fiesta, from 1984 through 1997. This timing was also a celebration of their full registration as a non-profit. It was usually centered at the De Anza Motor Lodge, a historic motel built in 1939 located at 4305 Central Ave NE in Albuquerque, where gathering and play parties took place. They also used another hotel at the corner of Central and San Mateo. MMNM held poker runs through town to pick up playing cards at various locations - those with the highest poker hand would win prizes. Other clubs that came to Hot Air included Rocky Mountain Motorcycle Club (RMCC), which was like a brother club to MMNM, Border Riders, City Bikers (Denver), Satyricons (Las Vegas, NV), and Castaways (Milwaukee, WI). Hot air was no longer held as the interest and participation in MMNM declined after 1997. Another run that MMNM attended was RMCC's Golden Fleece Run in Colorado. See the GROUPS page for more information about MMNM.
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1985: 12 Oct, Hot Air 2
1986: 10-12 Oct, Hot Air 3
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1988:
1989: 6-9 Oct, Hot Air '89 <d>
1990: 5-8 October. <c>
1991: 11-14 October, Hot Air '91 <a>
1993: Hot Air IX, 10th Anniversary of MMNM. "Leather Shed" event 16 October <b>, Ride Back to the Gay '90s.
1994: 7-10 October.
Motorcyclemen of New Mexico enjoyed their Fifth Annual Hot Air Run in Albuquerque, The Leather Journal, Issue 9, February-April 1989, page 15.
Motorcyclemen of New Mexico, Hot Air 1989 event registration form, October 6-9, 1989.
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Sources: Dennis Dunnum (interview 12Jun24), Leslie Anderson (interviews), Casey Newkirk (interview 14Jun24), https://www.theleatherjournal.com/news/<year>, theleatherjournal.com/news/author/802-daverhodes, Drummer Magazine Issue #132, <a> #150, <b> #167. Leather Archives & Museum resources.
1991-1994
New Mexico Drummer / Drummerboy
A Drummer / Drummerboy title was first available to New Mexico through the Southwest Drummer contest, that in 1989, began accepting leathermen from Arizona and New Mexico. <a, d> It was held at the Bum Steer in Phoenix. Residents of the Southwest Region could compete there directly or in feeders from particular states (if they held contests). Mr. Drummer was the predominant contest at this time, before exitance of International Mr Leather (IML) and International Ms Leather (IMsL).
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Southwest Drummer Titleholders:
1991 - Pat Sanchez (Mr Motorcyclemen NM).
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Pat was reported to be 1st Runner up in this contest by one source, but must have moved to the full title, winning Mr. Southwest Drummer 1991, and then competed in Drummer 1991. He was a judge at IML 1994. He also co-produced the Southwest Regional Drummer in 1994.
1991 - Lenard Martinez (Mr)
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Some time after Pat Sanchez won the event directly at Southwest Dummer, he started producing Mr. Drummer New Mexico as part of Motorcyclemen of New Mexico. Energy for this title merged into the Mr/Ms New Mexico title at a time where Drummer Magazine was sold to a different company resulting in turmoil about 1995-1996.
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New Mexico Drummer Titleholders:
1992 - Chuck Floyd (Mr), Allen Gates (Drummer Boy)
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Chuck raised $16,500 for the New Mexico Association of People Living With AIDS building fund for a new center by hosting a two-day auction and flea market in June.
1993 - Steve Benoit (Mr), James Danforth (Drummer Boy).
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James went on to also win the Southwest Drummer Boy title in Phoenix.
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"The Drummerboy winner, James Danforth of Albuquerque, New Mexico, competed against boys from Phoenix and Las Vegas. this 22-year-old boy said he has been interested in the leather community since he was a child." <b>
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1994 - Dominick Zurlo (Mr), 2nd place at Southwest Drummer in 1994.
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Contests:
1991 - Southwest Drummer only in Phoenix.
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1993 - May 8th. First regional Southwest contest in Phoenix.
1994 - 15-16 April, Pat Sanchez contact <c>.
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Sources: Leslie Anderson (interviews), Dominick Zurlo (interview 17Jul24), Internet. drummercontests.com (2000-2001), contest.drummer.com, https://www.theleatherjournal.com/news/leather-titles-in-<year>, cowboyfrank.men/PDF/Drummer/Drummer-<issue#>.pdf, theleatherjournal.com/news/author/802-daverhodes, Drummer Magazine Issue <a> #128 p88 - May 1989, <b> #163 May 1993, <c> #172 - 1994, <d> #130 -1989, theleatherjournal.com/news/1992 <e>, Dave Crawford, MMNM (interview 5Jan25).
Mr. Drummer Contest coverage in Drummer Magazine, Issue 150, Page 64, showing Pat Sanchez, Mr. New Mexico Drummer 1991, Mr. Southwest Drummer 1991, in his unsuccessful run for the national Mr. Drummer.
New Mexico Mr. Drummer Contest, ad, 1994, Drummer Magazine #172 featuring Pat Sanchez (left). <c>
NM Leather 1996. (left) Leslie Anderson, Wolf, James Collins, Kevin Watson, James Peters, ?. Picture from Leslie Anderson.
NM Leather 1997. (left) James Collins, Diva Marie, Dennis Dunnum, Leslie Anderson.
NM Leather 1997 group photo. Top from left: Jeff Tucker Pat, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?, Murph Merifran McDaniel Sousa, ?, ?, ?, ?, Jill Carter, ?, ?, Pat Baille. Bottom from left: Cindy Bookout, ?, ?, Leslie Anderson, Dennis Dunnum, ?.
From New Mexico Newsleather, Nov 1995, issue #2, by Casey Newkirk.
Major Gardner's Mr. New Mexico 2004 Leather patch (won in 2003), held by Jayson DaBoi.
2004 International Ms Leather, IMsL, Lori Ellison, Ms New Mexico Leather.
1994-2004
New Mexico Mr./Ms. Leather
New Mexico Mr./Ms. Leatherfest
Coming into existence as the Drummer Magazine title was becoming less popular, New Mexico Mr Leather, part of an event known as New Mexico Leather Weekend, was a title produced by Sandia Leathermen until 2000, and for a time, Black Leather Weekend by HPL Productions of Colorado. See the GROUPS page for more about them. This contest was originally open to all men, regardless of sexuality. Dennis Dunnum, Mr Leather 1997 went to IML that year, coming in sixth when he was 54 years old. Many of the NM Leather events had a themed name (New Mexico on Fire, Bootcamp, High Voltage, Heavy Metal, etc.) that was reflected on the stage decorations and represented on the event pin. The event was quickly opened to women.
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Leatherfest was an event held in October starting in 1992, celebrating leather during time of the Albuquerque Balloon Fiesta. There was a gap in events at this time because the Motorcyclemen of New Mexico (MMNM) were slowing down in production of their Air run at this time. Leatherfest title contests were held, a less formal contest considered to be a practice run for the NM Leather title contests.
In 2003, various combination of Mr./Ms. NM Leather titles were registered as trademark in New Mexico by James Torbet, Steven Wearden, Scott Allen Scott, Major Gardner, and Chuck Higgins. This was in response to HPL Productions of Colorado coming in to take over this title after Sandia Leathermen disbanded. There was some displeasure that group took over this title activity <seeking more information on this>.​​
​Mr./Ms. New Mexico Leather titles produced by Sandia Leathermen:
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1994 - Matt Lopez (Mr)
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First contestant in IML from NM, 1994.
1995 - Lady Willow (Ms), Buddy LaRue (Mr)
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Lady Willow, the first Ms NM Leather, was 2nd runner up @ IMsL. Buddy LaRue was 9th at IML 1995. Buddy was a past-president of Moctorcyclemen of NM. <d>
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Diva Marie, Willow, and Leslie Anderson attended IMsL 1995. All three made the top 10 constants. IMSL 1995 was pat baille of Santa Cruz, CA, who would move to Albuquerque in late 1995.<b> <c>
1996 - James Collins (Mr), Leslie Anderson (Ms).
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"New Mexico on Fire" theme, Leslie went on to be American Leatherwoman 1997 and International Ms. Bootblack 1999. James obtained 12th place at IML. James Collins was a judge at IML.
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22-24 March 1996
1997 - Dennis Dunnum (Mr), Diva Marie (Ms).
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"High Voltage" theme, Dennis went to IML and obtained 6th place. Diva Marie was 3rd place at IMsL.
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21-23 March 1997
1998 - Kevin Watson (Mr), Mistress Sky (Ms).
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"Heavy Metal" theme, Kevin was previously International Mr. Fantasy 1996. See details here.
1999 - Alen Pfannenstiel (Mr), Kathryn Alexander (Ms).
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"Bootcamp" theme. Sixth year of NM Leather.
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Key visitors included Chuck Renslow (owner IML) who brought a traveling exhibit of the Leather Archives & Museum, Mark Frazier (owner Dallas Eagle.
2001 - No Title (Sandia Leathermen had shut down).​
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New Mexico Leatherfest titles produced by Sandia Leathermen:
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1991 - 11-13 October, Albuquerque Leatherfest/Sandia Leathermen <a>.
1994 -
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Total of three contestants <c>
1995 - Shannon McAlexander (Ms), Tristan Tyler (Mr).
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This was the first Ms. Leatherfest contest. Attenance by many out of town organization and local including Bears of Manana, Motorcyclemen fo NM. <c>
1998 - Leatherfest was held​​​​
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1998 IMsL contest in Philadelphia PA - Mona Cleveland was first runner up.​
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Titles produced by "HPL Productions of Colorado" at Black Leather Weekend, precursor to and overlap with Rio Grande Leather Contest:
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2002 - ?
2003 - Leo Suarez (Mr). (held in 2002).
2004 - Lori Ellison (Ms), Major Gardner (Mr). (held in 2003).
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Lori obtained International Ms. Leather (IMsL) 2004.
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Major went to IML in 2003 but did not make the top 20. Major is a heterosexual-only, leather man, top-only in BDSM.​​
New Mexico Leather Contest program guides (1996, 1998, 1999). Click on cover image to see PDF.
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Sources: Leslie Anderson (interviews), Dominick Zurlo (interview 17Jul2024), Jayson DaBoi Johnson (interviews), Dennis Dunnum (interview 12Jun2024), Chuck Higgins (interview 12Jun24, +), Major (Greg) Gardner (interview), nmleather.com on web.archive.org (2004-2006), NM Secretary of State Trademark Search, Internet, leatherati.com/a-hidden-legacy-intermountain-leather-history-c5cb71269aa7, Darla (interview 31Aug2024), Sky Fiske (interview 1Sep2004), http://cowboyfrank.men/PDF/Drummer/Drummer-<issue#>.pdf, <a> Drummer Magazine Issue #150 September 1991, Pat Baillie (interview 31Aug24), <b> NM NewsLeather Isssue #1, <c> NM NewsLeather Issue #2, <d> Black Leather Weekend 2003 program, New Mexico Leather Contest program books for 1996, 1998, 1999.
2002-2003
Black Leather Weekend
Also known as LeatherCamp, Black Leather Weekend, was run by a group in Colorado, "HPL Productions of Colorado" (High Plains Leather) in response to the disbanding of Sandia Leathermen/Leatherwomen in running the Mr./Ms. New Mexico Leather titles. It was run by JD, or Daddy Jim Torbet, from Colorado Springs and his partner. JD's subsequent partner, Wally, Daddy Wally Douglas, was also involved. HPL had vended at many previous Sandia Leather events in New Mexico as a proprietor of affordable leather for the community. When Sandia Leather shut down, they didn't want the event to come to an end, so stepped in to keep things going. Black Leather Weekend organized classes, a dungeon, vendors, and the continuation of the Mr./Ms. New Mexico Leather titles. Other vendors included High Plains Leathers and Strictly Leather. In 2003, they added the subtitle "New Mexico's Annual Leather Family Reunion." <b>
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While some in Albuquerque, including some past title holders, had no problem with JD and Wally, establishment of this event by persons from Colorado did not sit well with some in the New Mexico community. HPL seemed to have acknowledged the conflict in a positive way in their 2003 event book by renaming the contest to "New Mexico Mr/Ms Leather" and giving Steve Wearden kudos. However, after this event, in 2003 a group of New Mexicans including their recent titleholder, Major, registered as trademarks various combination of Mr./Ms. NM Leather titles <c> to prevent HPL Productions from continuing this activity. This group was Steven Wearden, Scott Allen Scott, Major Gardner (2004 titleholder), and Chuck Higgins. James Torbet then registered another variation of the event name to continue Black Leather Weekend. The planned 2004 event advertised in the 2003 program book was cancelled. This evemtually enabled establishment of the Rio Grande Leather title events.
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Events:
2001 - March 23-25, 2001: (2002 Title)
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Titleholders unknown.
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Featured a Black Leather Banquet and a Black Leather Fantasy Show along with workshops and seminars. <a>
​2002 - March 22-24, 2002: (2003 Title), at Holiday Inn
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Leo Suarez (Mr).
2003 - 17-18 October, 2003: (2004 Title), also "New Mexico Annual Leather Family Reunion"
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Lori Ellison (Ms), Major Gardner (Mr).
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Lori obtained International Ms. Leather (IMsL) 2004.
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Major went to IML in 2003 but did not make the top 20. Major is a heterosexual-only, leather man, top-only in BDSM.
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2004 - Scheduled for October 2004; however, it was cancelled.​
Black Leather Weekend: Producer, Daddy Jim Torbet (left), Event Coordinator and Contest Coordinator, Daddy Wally Douglas (right). From 2003 program.
At 2024 CLAW LA, Black Leather Weekend Event Coordinator and Contest Coordinator, Daddy Wally Douglas (left) and Producer Daddy Jim Torbet (left), discussing their recollections of Black Leather Weekend.
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​Sources: blackleatherweekend.homestead.com on web.archive.net, Major Gardner (interview), nmleather.com on web.archive.org (2004-2006), Chuck Higgins (interviews), Kathyrn Alexander (interview 30Aug2024), <c> State of New Mexico Secretary of State Trademark Search, <a> https://www.theleatherjournal.com/news/<year>, <b> Black Leather Weekend 2003 program.
2002-?
New Mexico Leather Sir
New Mexico LeatherSir, was apparently a short-lived event. We have little information on this other than a cookout picture from the Leather Wolves archived website with the patched individual behind the smoke of the BBQ. We extracted the patch from this image. Leslie Anderson is talking to this individual by the BBQ but does not recall the details. If you have more information, let us know!
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From the Leather Wolves website capture 18Apr2003:
"Where there's smoke there's...Leather Wolves? On Sunday April 13th at the Albuquerque Mining Company there were. About 30 folks gathered to eat their own (and others') meat, cooked on the grill to perfection for us by Jim. They say the secret's in the sauce. But they don't say how you get the sauce out of the cook. Hmmmm. Bet you can think of at least one way! <a>
"Tom Fierros of Phoenix, AZ was named Southwest Leather Sir 2002 and Keith Tomlinson became Southwest Leatherboy 2002 at the Quality Hotel and Resort in Phoenix on Saturday night, August 3 in front of about 200 Leatherfolk." <b> This would seem to imply that the titleholder of this vest did not advance.
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Sources: leatherwolves.org (2003-2011) and hometown.aol.com/leatherwolves/ (2003-2007) on web.archive.org <a> www.theleatherjournal.com/news/2002 <b>.
2003-2005
Desert Pandemonium → Spring Pandemonium
In October 2003, "a group of kinky-minded Albuquerque folks got together and decided to host one hell of a dungeon." <a> It went so well that they decided to make it an annual event. The next official event was held October 15, 2004, 9 pm-2 am as Desert Pandemonium 2004 at Pride Gym, 1803 3rd St NW in Albuquerque, which was the same weekend as New Mexico's Annual Leather Weekend, eventually renamed to Rio Grande Leather. A Meet & Greet Cocktail Party was held at Albuquerque Mining Company (AMC). They sold tickets at The Cafe Next Door, AEL Power Munch, and Sandia Women's Dinner. The event included demos, NM Mr. Leather 2004, Major.
In 2005, this event was titled Spring Pandemonium, a long-weekend collaboration of Desert Pandemonium and Rio Grande Leather. Events started Thursday March 10th at Emmanuel Metropolitan Community Church (314 Dallas NE), Julian Wolf lead a discussion about lifestyle, protocol, play party etiquette and the BDSM community. Friday March 11th, 2005, there was an informal mixer at Albuquerque Mining Company (AMC). The dungeon play party was Pride Gym 9 pm-2 am. Demos started the activity at 930-10 pm. The next day on Saturday, a full day of workshops occurred 10 am-4 pm at AMC. This was followed by the Mr. Rio Grande Leather contest 7-10 pm at The Ranch (8900 Central NE) and fantasies at The Ranch 8-930 pm, and victory party 10-1130 pm. On Sunday they held "Beauty & the Brunch" at Exhale (3162 4th St NW) that featured a fetish ware fashion show.
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Events: (not a complete list)
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2003 - October (first event), Desert Pandemonium.
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2004 - October 15, Desert Pandemonium.
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2005 - March 11-13, Spring Pandemonium.
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2012 - April 13-15, Spring Pandemonium, included an Albuquerque Leather Daddy event "Under Cover of Darkness - a tribute to the leather bars of the past" at which Albuquerque boys of Leather (AboL) was introduced. <a>
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Sources: <a> desertpandemonium.org on web.archive.org (2004-2006), riograndeleather.org on web.archive.org, <a> Leather History in Albuquerque - Leatherati - boy bionic - 14Apr2012 - leatherati.com/leather-history-in-albuquerque-c03b52a5f5f3.
2004-2010
Mr. / Ms. Rio Grande Leather
Produced originally by a number of entities, including NMLL, and eventually Steve Wearden, Mr./Ms. Rio Grande Leather (RGL) was widely considered the follow-on event to the Mr/Ms New Mexico Leather titles. ​It is notable that Tyler McCormick, the 2010 titleholder became International Mr Leather (IML) that year, the only IML from New Mexico.
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In 24 May 2006, RGL website shows that contents are copyright NMLL, and in 2010 was again independent.
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It was typical that titleholders were asked to go to IML and IMsL to represent New Mexico. The Ms titleholder was asked to go to IML to support the Mr titleholder and vice versa.
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Title Holders:
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2004 - Ruben Gallegos (Mr), Julian Wolf (Ms)
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October 15-16, 2004
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Ruben went to IML, 2004. ?
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In cooperation with the Desert Pandemonium play party.
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Event locations: AMC: Albuquerque Mining Company, 7209 Central Ave. NE, Pride Gym, 1803 3rd St. NW, The Ranch, 8900 Central Ave. SE, Next door to the Cafe Next Door: Former Sisters & Brothers Bookstore, 4011 Silver SE.
2005 - Stacey Wadley (of Albuquerque) (Ms), Leo Suarez (of Cloudcroft) (Mr).
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October 14-16, 2005 at Sidewinders Ranch.
2006 - Not issued due to title date changes.
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The producers previously issued the title for the same year as the contest. In 2006, they decided to issue the title for the following year, allowing IML contenders to have a more current title and align with other contests in the nation. Thus one title year number was skipped.<a>
2007 - Dread Pirate Drew (Mr).
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October 20-22, 2006.
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Produced by NMLL, Lady Katalina, Pat Baillie.
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Howard Johnsons at Hotel Circle.
2008 - Crrreature (Mr), Keli (Daddy bear) (Ms).
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October 19-21, 2007
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Full program book RGL 2008 and The Leather Journal article here.
2009 - Craig Dill (Mr), Mistress Sky (Ms).
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October 17-19, 2008.
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Craig Dill attended IML in 2009. His involvement at IML eventually threatened his personal livelihood. Critics in his job role claimed Craig was a "pervert;" however, Craig persevered, and in the process helped normalize leather in the broader community. <a>
2010 - Tyler McCormick (Mr), Jayson DaBoi (Ms)
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2009 event date.
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Tyler won IML 2010 as first disabled, trans at IML. Jayson won International Ms. Bootblack 2010. Tyler had immense criticism as a transman and having a handicap as IML that helped evolve the leather community and pave the way for future trans participants and winners of IML. He had little support paving this pathway, but it lead to more inclusivity in the future.
2011 - October 14-16, 2010 (Planned but not held. No title.)​
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Sources: Tyler McCormick (interviews), riograndeleather.org on web.archive.org, Steve Wearden's 2019 Leather History training, Craig Dill (interview 25Aug2024) <a>, Pat Baillie (interview 31Aug2024), Darla Hallmark (interview 31Aug2004), Sky Fiske (interview 1Sep2024).
Portraits spanning New Mexico Leather & Rio Grande Leather, created by artist Darla, that could be used as fundraiser magnets by titleholders.
The Leather Journal, November 2007, p20. Dave Rhodes attended RGL 2008 title contest. Pictures on page clockwise from top left: (1) Contest producer Lady Katalina and Mr. Rio Grade Leather 2007 Dread Pirate Drew; (2) Jayson DaBoi works on Pat Baillie's boots; (3) Riogirlscout performed a straight jacket escape scene on Friday night; (4) Ruben Gallegos of the Leather Wolves and his boys rex on his left and geo on his right; (5) Workshop presenters Malik and slave cathy; (6) Belly dancer eve during Albuquerque Shines; (7) (center) Mr. and Ms. Rio Grade Leather 2008 Crrreature and Daddy Bear. Photos by Dave Rhodes. See more detail here.
From Left: Mr Rise & Shine Bear 2010, Kevin Reichenstein, ?.
2006-2009
American Bear Awakening (ABA)
American Bear Awakening, also the Bare Bones Bear Run, in Albuquerque was organized in cooperation between the Sandia Bears and Bears of Mañana. See the GROUPS page for more about them. This included a contest that included titles of Mr. Rise & Shine Bear and American Bear Awakening. Other typical events included activities such as these: Bear Ho'Down and Meet-N-Greet, Sandia Tram Ride, Old Town Museum & Shopping, Bear Splash-N-Que, Swimming and BBQ, Bear Fusion Dance, Acoma Sky City Pueblo Casino Tour, Madrid NM Tour, Bear Blast, Bear-eoke, Guild Cinema.
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ABA Events:
2006: ?
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Titles: Ruben Gallegos, NM N Shine Bear; Kelly Peeples, NM Rise N Shine Cub <?>
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Stink bomb event at Sidewinders!
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Sheraton Uptown
2007: 8-11 March 2027 (American Bear Awakening II)
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Titles: ?
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Sheraton Uptown
2008: 3-6 April 2008 (American Bear Awakening III)
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Titles: ?
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Howard Johnsons, Eubank & I40
2009: 2-5 April 2009 (American Bear Awakening IV)
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Titles: <name>, American Bear Awakening
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Sandia Courtyard Hotel
2010: ?
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From Left: ?, D Tony Carson, Kevin Reichenstein (Mr Rise & Shine Bear 2010), Bill Ziegler.
American Bear Awakening IV: I'm going, RU?
youtube.com/watch?v=4UAudkGYnIs
American Bear Awakening IV: Who's Going?
youtube.com/watch?v=d7Ny1LvzdCs
​Sources: Tony Carson (intervews), bearsofmanana.com on web.archive.org (2007-, no content found, assume no website built), Facebook, americanbearawakening.com on web.archive.org (2007-2009), sandiabears.org on web.archive.net (2008-2009), americanbearawakening.com, NM Secretary of State Business Search, Facebook, YouTube /youtu.be/cnTHg1vjVME?si=kNo1xUnUClkDnThd, youtu.be/4UAudkGYnIs?si=uLwPuz6VJSPtzN5X, youtu.be/d7Ny1LvzdCs?si=7ykhPcKfRhMC84wS, youtube.com/@sandiaabq, Matthew Christian (interview 30Aug2024).
2009 (3rd Annual) poster for Southwest Burlesque Showcase, identifying Kitty Irreverent and several regional performers, Burlesque Noir, Molten Rouge, Colorado’s Burlesque As It Was, and emcees Devin D. and Dr. Shocker.
2007-2018
Southwest Burlesque Showcase
Southwest Burlesque Showcase (SWBS) was an annual Albuquerque burlesque festival produced by Burque Burlesque and principally held at the historic KiMo Theatre. The numbered festival began in 2007 and continued through its eleventh annual presentation in 2018. At its conclusion, it was described as New Mexico’s largest and longest-running burlesque festival. New Mexico Burlesque Festival, established in 2019, identifies itself as the Showcase’s successor.
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New Mexico performers were joined by nationally and internationally recognized burlesque artists for mixed classic striptease with neo-burlesque, comedy, theatrical dance, drag, boylesque, acrobatics, singing, nerd-inspired performance, and other forms of variety entertainment. This event was an important gateway connecting local performers with visiting artists. Venue choice of the KiMo Theatre connected contemporary burlesque with Albuquerque’s earlier entertainment history. Advertising for the 2009 Showcase recalled that celebrated fan dancer Sally Rand had performed her “Bubble Dance” on the KiMo stage in December 1936.
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Website of SWBS history states: <e>
The burlesque revival began in New Mexico during 2002 with the arrival of of Lonely Hearts Burlesque. While the company did not last, it certainly ignited the interest of many fledgling performers. Kitty Irreverent, along with a few other Lonely Hearts refugees, went on to create their own troupe, known as Belladonna Burlesque. Around the same time, Holly Rebelle began her own performance company, Burlesque Noir.
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Fueled by a desire to create a true community, Kitty spent the next few years trying to unite Belladonna, Burlesque Noir, and the local independent performers together for one grand show. Kitty searched for a larger venue for this idea, but too often, legitimate theatre owners felt that such a risqué event did not belong on their property.
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Eventually, Kitty and co-producer Devin D presented their idea to the City of Albuquerque, owners of the historic KiMo theater. An historically restored building known for more refined fare, the KiMo had not seen burlesque grace its stage for many decades. City officials must have seen some potential in their proposal. The New Mexico Burlesque Showcase was greenlit, scheduled for Valentines Day weekend 2007, nearly five years to the day since Lonely Hearts’ first burlesque show.
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2007: First numbered Southwest Burlesque Showcase.
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2009 — February 20: Third annual Showcase at the KiMo Theatre. Performers came from New Mexico, Arizona, California, Colorado, and Texas.
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2011 — February 11–12: Fifth annual Showcase at the KiMo Theatre.
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2013 — February 14–16: Seventh annual festival included a kickoff show and vendors’ court at the Launchpad, KiMo Theatre performances, and an academic roundtable concerning gender, beauty, and social norms.
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2014: Eighth annual festival expanded into a multi-night weekend with performances, classes, social activities, burlesque legends, and Burlesque Hall of Fame participation.
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2015 — February 13–14: Ninth annual Showcase at the KiMo Theatre.
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2016 — February 11–13: Tenth annual Showcase, including performances and educational activities.
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2018 — February 9–10: Eleventh and final documented Southwest Burlesque Showcase. Dr. Lucky hosted both nights, and Jo Weldon, headmistress of the New York School of Burlesque, was among the headliners.
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2019: The newly established New Mexico Burlesque Festival continued the annual Valentine’s-season burlesque tradition at the KiMo Theatre.
Sources: nmbfproductions.com <a> utm_source=chatgpt.comvoyageaustin.com/interview/conversations-with-kitty-irreverent/ <b>, theatermania.com/shows/new-mexico-theater/albuquerque-theater/3rd-annual-sw-burlesque-showcase_151870/ <c>, 21stcenturyburlesque.com/shan-de-leers-southwest-burlesque-showcase-diary/, bubonicon.com/calendar/event/11th-sw-burlesque-showcase-kimo/ <d>, web.archive.org 21Mar2016 <e>.
2010-2014
Evolution of the Revolution (EvoRevo)
Evolution of the Revolution (EvoRevo) was a series of large highly-regarded, upscale events held by the New Mexico Fetlifers (NMFL). All three were held at Hard Rock Casino (now Isleta Resort & Casino) south of Albuquerque. This event brought in nationally-known guest educators and speakers including John Baku, Jay Wiseman, Mistress Serene (RIP), Dr Clockwork, Deborah Hoffman-Wade, Max Rulz, Simon Blaise, Danielle DV8, and Guy Baldwin. In 2011, the Carter-Johnson Leather Library was at EvoRevo along with Mama Vi Johnson and boy Robi, the farthest west the Library has been at that time. EvoRevo also had vendors, classes, cocktail parties, a kinky townhall, and dungeon play party. There is no remaining group on Fetlife as it was removed by the creators. <a> <b> <c>
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EvoRevo 1 - Sept 17-18, 2010
EvoRevo 2 - Sept 16-17, 2011
EvoRevo 3 - Sept 14-16, 2012
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EvoRevo events were regarded as high-end, sophisticated events at the best facilities and with the best accommodations that have not been seen in Albuquerque before (or since) even by New Mexico Leather League (NMLL). The community may not have been able to fully support such events, which may have contributed to more limited attendance and no further events being held. There was some worry from those outside EvoRevo and NM Fetlifers, such as from NMLL, at the time, that Sera's events were over-saturating the event capacity of the region -- yet EvoRevo brought something new to New Mexico. Yet NMFL and NMLL held a joint activity in February 2014, "Hot Under the Collar." See NMFL listing under GROUPS for more detail. <d> <e>
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Sources: Sera Miles (interview 19May2024) <a>, Eldest Saint (textual interviews, May2024) <b>, newmexicofetlifers.com on web.archive.org <c>, community member discussions <d>, GROUPS <e>.
2010-2020
Albuquerque WET-MUNCH
Starting with community interest in 2010, Albuquerque WET-MUNCH came into being via Connyfornia, Ms.B, Kim, and others. In 2010, Ms.B started a Sunday Coffee Munch held twice a month at the Flying Star on Wyoming & Paseo del Norte. After loss of a venue and a pause, Kim renamed the event WET-MUNCH, resurrecting it briefly until venue issues and a dormant period. Briana, Daniel, and Conny brought it back in 2012 At Albuquerque Press Club (APC), April 1st, 2012. WET-MUNCH moved around looking for stable venues and community interest, finding the Albuquerque Press Club (The Whittlesey House) in 2012-2018. They held cookouts and educational events, some coordinated by Jinx. The event served a pansexual community with strong hetro focus. In 2018, the event moved to NM Clubhouse space. Next was Carraro's & Joe's Place, a great dive bar followed by Quarter Celtic Brewpub in 2019. After seven and a half years, leadership transferred to Genie, who eventually moved the event to Billy's Long Bar. The 2020 Pandemic brought the last event in March 2020.
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Source: Fetlife, Albuquerque WET-MUNCH, Conny (interviews), Attendee experience.
2014-2026+?
Rio Rancho (RR) Munch - Fetlife
Rio Rancho Munch or RR Munch, was started by BitchInHeels in 2014, taken over in 2022 by LittleBratOfRR after BitchInHeels left the area. It is associated with a Fetlife group, "RR, NM Local Fetlifers." The attendance is variable but on average very well blended between straight, gay, pan, trans, queer, etc., now held at a bistro in Rio Rancho, New Mexico. LittleBratOfRR is a warm inclusive host, catering to an attendance of 25-50. This is a munch to enjoy good food, drink, and conversations in a safe space for kinksters. This event focuses on comradery and having a munch. There are no speakers or other activities, except holidays where there might be an optional themed experience.
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In August 2026, LittleBratOfRR announced that the munch would be canceled for a couple months due to being busy with other matters. <d>
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Source: LittleBratOfRR (interviews) <a>, Fetlife <b>, Attendee experience <c>, fetlife.com/events/2026/09/14/canceling-the-rio-rancho-munch-cvgwbm <d>.
2015-
Corazón Leather Contest
Corazón Leather Contest has awarded two titles per year, if the two top contestants obtains the minimum required score. This was the first pansexual event in the region. Gender honorifics were provided based upon the winning contestants. This title event was started by Andrew Walden-Montoya and originally supported by New Mexico Leather League, who had it at their events. In 2023, event ownership was transferred to Jayson DaBoi Johnson, who held the event at Social Club. Jayson removed gender from the awarded titles and added more requirements for cross-community service.
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In 2015, New Mexico Leather League teamed with Albuquerque boys of Leather (AboL) to produce the first Mr. and Ms. Corazón Leather competition, the first leather title since 2010, the last year of Rio Grande Leather. <a>
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Judges were Tyler McCormick (IML 2010), Rosalinda Colin (Ms San Francisco Leather 2015), Stan Alexander, Jason DaBoi, and Lori Ellison (Ms NM Leather 2004, NLA Dallas)
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Class presenters included Hardy Haberman, Tyesha Nichole Best, Jayson DaBoi, boy ash, House Golden, JD Smith & Wade, Sky Fiske (Ms NM leather 1998 and Ms Rio Grande Leather 2009), Big Squeezer (Daniel Erickson), Jackixo, slave eve, Sir B & Sir's Kitten, Just Angel (SW Bootblack 2014), Little Bad Daddy (Ms San Francisco Leather 2015).
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Vendors were Gear Werks, Moonlight Creations, Corset.net, Life Style Sewing, KJ Canes, Tease by Travis, The January Shop, Conzept Dezigns, Unseen Gallery, Crossroads, Organic Hemp, Photos by Alibi, and Self Serve.
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2015 - Brooke Zeno (NoZKitten) (Ms), Joseph Burke (Mr)
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Sheraton Albuquerque Airport Hotel.
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Produced by Andy Walden-Montoya.
2016 - Jinx the Lynx (Ms), Ninjetkitty (Ms)
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Sheraton Albuquerque Airport Hotel.
2017 - Ty the Gentleman (Mr)
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Sheraton Albuquerque Airport Hotel.
2018 - boy Christian (Mr), Sir Magnum (Mr)
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Sheraton Albuquerque Airport Hotel.
2020-2021 - None (Pandemic)
2022- boy Chris (Mr), Uncle Jaie (Mr)
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Ramada Inn, Menaul/University.
2023 - Bear Marvin (Lash Onyx), Brandon Waters
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Albuquerque Social Club
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First event produced by Jayson DaBoi Johnson.
2024 - Candy Brown-Cardwell, Tatra​
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Albuquerque Social Club
2025 - Phoenix​
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Black Cat Cultural Center, Oct 18, 2025
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Sources: Andrew Walden-Montoya (interviews), Jayson DaBoi Johnson (interviews), Ty the Gentleman (interview 25Aug2024), contestants, nmleatherleague.com on web.archive.org (2015 <a>, Bear Mike, Lash Onyx.
![Spring Pandemonium 2022, Corazon Leather Contest, Ramada Inn. From left: Lil Miss, Magnum, ?, Titleholders [Uncle Jaie, Boy Chris], ?, Justin Terry-Smith, Jayson DaBoi Johnson, Christian, Ninjet Kitty.](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/1586e8_11201b24dca3449b82d297d3554c8b51~mv2.png/v1/fill/w_319,h_152,al_c,q_85,usm_0.66_1.00_0.01,enc_avif,quality_auto/1586e8_11201b24dca3449b82d297d3554c8b51~mv2.png)
Spring Pandemonium 2022, Corazon Leather Contest, Ramada Inn. From left: Lil Miss, Magnum, ?, Titleholders [Uncle Jaie, Boy Chris], ?, Justin Terry-Smith, Jayson DaBoi Johnson, Christian, Ninjet Kitty.
Social Club, October 2023, Corazon Leather Contest, From left: David Gutierrez, Michael DaBoi, Christian, Bear Marvin (titleholder), ?, Jayson DaBoi Johnson, Brandon (titleholder kneeling), Uncle Jaie, Jinx, ?.
Social Club, October 2024, Corazon Leather Contest, From left: Christian, Lash Onyx (2023 titleholder), Candy Brown-Cardwell (winner), Tatra (winner), Brandon (2023 titleholder), Jinx.
Phoenix, Corazon Leather 2025
2001-2020
Alibi Fetish Events
Weekly Alibi was a newspaper and event producer as Alibi Fetish Events in Albuquerque, New Mexico. See MEDIA page of this history for more about the newspaper. Diva Marie ran the Alibi Fetish Ball for a few years with her live troupe "Crushed Velvet Rope." Initial annual activities were organized under different event names and often held at The Launchpad (618 Central Ave SW), with discreet advertising to avoid attracting attention of conservative authorities that would obstruct events. Police would often monitor and the fire department would count attendance. Launchpad opened in 1997 as a live music venue and bar.
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Julian Addams-Wolf produced the Carnal Carnevale Masquerade – a sophisticated event that allowed masked attendees to walk through many BDSM demos and fantasies while sipping a drink and having hors d’oeuvres. This event, also known as the Alibi Fetish Ball, was held in January 2018 at 1512 1st Street event center and December 2017 at the Gertrude Zachary mansion. These type of events helped build a bridge from the vanilla world, allowing those lost to find home and safe space in the leather and kink communities. Weekly Alibi shut down publication in August 2020.
As a related even in February 2017, Julian produced an Alibi event “Kinky Curiosities” at Sister Bar “showing off some of Albuquerque’s biggest fantasies, fetishes, kinks and curiosities.” There were live performers and demonstrations “from leather to lace, from bondage to burlesque, from domination to drag queens.” Performances, demos, and vendors included Femme Fatale Burlesque Cabaret, Perla Foxxx of Dirty Deeds Burlesque, Annie O’Roar, Albuquerque Leather Daddys, Albuquerque boys of Leather, Rip & Shawna, 2016 Corazón Leather Titleholders, Mistress Lexianna & Her toys, Sweeny Odd, VJ Lithochasm, Cabaret Audacity, and Joy Coy.
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Sources: Julian Addams-Wolf, Internet alibi.com on web.archive.org, Diva Marie (interview 22Sep24), launchpadrocks.com on web.archive.org (2001-).
2018-2020
New Mexico Leather Bear/cub Contest
New Mexico Leather Bear / Leather Cub Contest was started and operated by the Albuquerque Leather Daddys, produced by member John Skelton. Events were held primarily at Sidewinders Ranch location, 8900 Central SE, with some interviews at other locations. Although there was some talk about continuing this event after the closing of the Albuquerque Leather Daddys in 2021, this contest has not been held again.
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2018 - NM Bear (Bear Tim), NM Cub (Andy Walden-Montoya)
2019 - NM Bear (Bear Marvin, Lash Onyx), NM Cub (Joshua Lobato)
2020 - NM Bear (Brian Tuffnell), NM Cub (Chris Jones)
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Sources: Albuquerque Leather Daddy members, contestants (interviews), leatherdaddys.org on web.archive.org, Bear Mike.
2019-
New Mexico Burlesque Festival
Established in 2019 by Unicorn Productions, The New Mexico Burlesque Festival (NMBF) is a multi-day burlesque performance and educational event held in Albuquerque during Valentine’s Day weekend. Its principal showcases are presented on the stage of the historic KiMo Theatre including artists from New Mexico, the USA, and other countries.
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This event describes itself as the successor to Albuquerque’s earlier Southwest Burlesque Showcase. <a> Its first festival was held February 15–16, 2019, hosted by World Famous Bob and headlined by Poison Ivory, Miss Exotic World 2016. The second festival followed February 14–15, 2020.
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2019 — February 15–16: First annual festival at the KiMo Theatre. Presented by Unicorn Productions, hosted by World Famous Bob, and headlined by Poison Ivory.
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2020 — February 14–15: Second annual festival. Headlined by Medianoche, with Burlesque Legend Marinka, special guest Kitten de Ville, regional feature J.D. Hickock, and host Tito Bonito.
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2021: No festival located; activity was interrupted during the COVID-19 pandemic.
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2022: Planned festival canceled.
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2023 — February 10–11: Festival returned to the KiMo Theatre with two showcases. Headliners were Frankie Fictitious and P. NoNoire; Tito Bonito served as emcee.
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2024 — February 8–10: Fourth annual festival and the first to include three evening showcases. Hosted by Jeez Loueez and Tito Bonito; featured Lou Lou la Duchesse de Rière, Miss Exotic World 2022.
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2025 — February 14–16: Fifth annual festival. Hosted by Tito Bonito and headlined by the Montreal duo Kozmic Joy. Joy Coy and Frisky Business were identified as co-producers.
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2026 — February 12–14: Sixth annual festival, presenting three different casts over three nights. Hosted by Tito Bonito and RedBone, with featured and headlining appearances by RedBone, Chola Magnolia, Ginger Snaps, Sneaky Boo, Nami Flare, and Vita Devour. Nine workshops were presented over two days, including a local-history workshop in partnership with the Burlesque Hall of Fame.
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2027 — February 11–13: Seventh festival announced for the KiMo Theatre.
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Sources: nmbfproductions.com <a>, facebook.com/NMburlesquefestival/ <b>.
2020-
Onyx Gear Night
Onyx Gear Night evolved from establishment of an Onyx Men of Color presence in Albuquerque by Lash Onyx (Bear Marvin) and Poppa Savant Onyx (Bear Mike) through Onyx Lone Star chapter and an inaugural event, Onyx Black & White Fetish Ball in February 2020, just as the pandemic was becoming a reality. It was a huge success with Onyx members from Texas also attending. At this event, the community also became aware that the owners of Sidewinders Ranch had decided to move their event to 4200 Central Ave SE as Sidewinders S4200 Bar & Grill. Therefore this was the last large event at Sidewinders. It was not known at this first event that the ensuing pandemic shut down all public activity.
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During the Pandemic, 2020-2021, to provide community cohesion, Onyx held virtual bar nights and other educational events on Zoom, which they did with other members of Onyx Lone Star. ​​
In the spring of 2021, the owners of Sidewinders asked Onyx to return to the bar for munches and eventually a Gear Night at on the 3rd Saturday of each month. At this time "Leather & Kink Night" was held on the 1st Saturday of each month, giving the bar two major kinky events per month. Onyx munches were held in the Cabaret or general bar, supporting the bar's kitchen and staff. They featured a short presentation surrounded by a lot of conversation and comradery. In February 2024, the talk theme was "Born Kinky - Discovering Kink, by Lash Onyx and Bear Mike.
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Onyx High Desert chapter, established 2024 in New Mexico, continued the themed Gear Nights with demos and impromptu scenes. They were first to bring back some of the feel of a hard cord leather bar by initiating X-/R+ "back room videos" on TVs inside sidewinders. These videos showing BDSM, sex, sexy male persons of color, leatherdykes, trans, and other members of the community within the legal requirements in Albuquerque. They also reprised the Black & White Fetish Ball as one of their monthly events.​​ After Pride celebrations in June 2025, Onyx Gear Night was moved to the 1st Saturday each month at the request of bar managment.​​
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Sources: Onyx, Bear Marvin (interviews), Bear Mike, onyxhighdesert.com.
2021-2025
ABQ Eagle Leather & Kink Night
As the pandemic subsided, owners of Sidewinders Bar & Grill wanted the Albuquerque Leather Daddys to return to the 1st Saturdays in 2021. The Daddys decided to retire the organization then and suggested Sidewinders run their own leather event on that date. The result was ABQ Eagle Leather & Kink Night, produced by several, but consolidating on Greg Boyd (Daddy boy Greg) as the primary producer. Starting in September 2021, there has been significant evolution of this event that has different themes each month, primarily located in the Cabaret section of the facility. Frequent helpers were Ana Martinez, Julian, and Handler Tatra. Due to Greg Boyd's intended departure from Albuquerque, In about February, 2025, Greg turned this event over to Russ Downs and Kevin Burges. Sidewinders management chose to close down this event after pride celebration in June 2025. Onyx Gear Night was moved to 1st Saturday as an event, leaving the 3rd Saturday open for other bar events.​​
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Sources: Albuquerque Leather Daddys, Bear Mike, Greg Boyd, Sidewinders Managment.
2022-
Social Club Leather & Kink Night
In February 2022, Albuquerque Social Club started their Leather & Kink Night on the third Friday of each month, using the same name as the event already being held at Sidewinders, often the day before Onyx Gear Night at Sidewinders, which for a time was on the 3rd Saturday. This caused some community contention between Soch and Sidewinders for a time.
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Leather & Kink Night at Soch was produced by Uncle Jaie (Jaie Davis), who was involved in the Court, drag community, and was pledging Onyx during the establishment of this event. This event has evolved over time to focus more on the Kink and younger side of the community. There is a central theme of dance party, but includes demos, periodic pup events, vendors.
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Upon the passing of Jaie Davis in April 2024, the event was briefly run by Russ Downs with help from Jinx, and Tatra. Within a couple months, Social Club management decided to recast this event into a dance night keeping a the Leather & Kink theme primarily as an on-stage entertainment sideshow vibe with various rotating kink entertainers on stage.
In early 2025, this event was no longer advertised. The Albuquerque social Club was moving to a new structure and vision to maintain financial health. In September 2025, this event reappeared periodically on the 3rd Friday of each month, and became a regular event, originally as "Leather Night," during the re-start, changing back to "Leather & Kink Night" produced by Handler Tatra.
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Sources: Attendees, Fetlife, abqsocial.org, Jaie Davis, Bear Mike.
2023-
Dyke Night ABQ - Social Club
Albuquerque Social Club started Dyke Night ABQ to bring the community back out for some fun, under management of Toni Maestas. Events started out on first Tuesdays. They include a DJ, multiple vendors, bootblacks (usually Jayson DaBoi Johnson), and much conversation and dancing.
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Social Club experienced a financial issue and staffing changes in early 2025, resulting in changes to format of multiple events. Dyke Night continued into 2026 with a different formats, held on the first Friday of each month.
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Sources: Attendees, abqsocial.org, facebook.com/AlbuquerqueSocialClub, Bear Mike.
2025-
Low Sensory Leather Social (LSLS)
Low Sensory Leather Social (LSLS) was initiated as an experiment to bring out leather community seemingly missing from events since the Covid pandemic - an opportunity for those in the leather, BDSM, and alternative communities to have a low-key, relaxing social held earlier in the day, conversation-enabling, with sober-aware drink options. It was owned and produced by Domum Corium Cordis (House of Leather Heart) and hosted and sponsored by NM-REAL (NM Respect Ethics Acceptance in Leather) as one of that organizations first regular events.
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It was originally scheduled on the 3rd Saturday of each month, 7-9 pm, just before Onyx Gear Night, so the crowd could stay longer for that event, the first event was Saturday February 15th, 2025. It is held in the cabaret section of Sidewinders Bar & Grill, ABQ Eagle. Each event had different actives, such as flash education briefings, optional name tags and conversation, a free raffle for leather and kink items, mentions of coming leather and kink events in the region, cigar time on the patio, vendors, and bootblack Boy Xtian, as well as food and beverages from Sidewinders. The event moved to 1st Saturday of the month with Onyx Gear Night when requested by the bar managment.
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Sources: Bear Mike, nm-real.org, Fetlife.com.
2025-
KinkToberFest
Kinktoberfest was envisioned as an alternative event created by community for community that was inspired by intention by NM-REAL (New Mexico Respect Ethics Acceptance in Leather, Inc.) in partnership with Purgatory Dungeon and Spectrum ABQ as a continuation of other events about this time the prior year. Kinktoberfest is owned and produced by Domum Corium Cordis (House of Leather Heart), and event producer was Bear Mike. Focus of the event was on an inclusive safe space for education, play parties, entertainment, vendors, and comradery through social engagement. The producers and hosting organizations sought to do things differently and broaden participation from groups across New Mexico and the United States. Kinktoberfest 2025 consisted of two warmup events on Friday evenings (Oct 17 & 24) followed by a main event on a weekend (Nov 1-2). Their website is kinktoberfest.com, or @Kinktoberfest on Fetlife.
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Bear Mike sought to have free public access to the vendors of Kinktoberfest, branding that effort as New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair to avoid confusion in the public that this was a free access event. He envisioned other smaller regular events throughout the year highlighting local vendors with other attractions such as socials, classes, speakers, and play parties. NM L&K Fair website is at nmlkf.com or nmleatherkinkfair.com and @LeatherKinkFair on Fetlife.
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Collaborating organizations in Kinktoberfest include NM-REAL (nm-real.org), Spectrum Parties (spectrumparties.com), Purgatory Dungeon (purgatorydungeon.com), and produced by Domum Corium Cordis (houseofleatherheart.org), Onyx High Desert, Sidewinders Bar & Grill / ABQ Eagle, and Four Corners Collective Kink (FCCK).
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2025
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Warmup Events - Friday evenings, 17 & 24 Oct.
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Main Event - Sat Nov 1, Sunday Nov 2.
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Program Book: PDF
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Dance Card: PDF
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2026 (Planned)
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Warmup Events - Friday evenings, 2 & 9 Oct.
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Main Event - Fri Evening 16 Oct to Sunday 18 Oct.
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Sources: Kinktoberfest.com, nm-real.org, nmleatherkinkfair.com.
2025-
New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair
New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair (NML&KF) was developed primarily as a social event to bring together community around vendors and other events that would draw attention to vendors such as classes, social activities. It was intended as a flexible event where each one could be different, change locations, be free, or charge admission.
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NML&KF is owned and produced by Domum Corium Cordis (House of Leather Heart), and event producer was Bear Mike in close collaboration with Wired Events (SpectrumABQ & Purgatory Dungeon). NM-REAL, Inc., was provided the support and financial structure to the event. The first event was the vendor area of Kinktoberfest 2025 that allowed separate free entrance to vendors for a paid event. Other events followed.
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2025
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Kinktoberfest 2025 free vending area, @ Wired Events
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Free vendor event for Kinktoberfest.​​
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2026
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April 10, 6-9 pm - Free vendor social @ Wired Events
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April 11, All day - Ticketed education and vendor event. @ Wired Events
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July 17th, 6-9 pm - Free vendor social @ Wired Events.
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Sources: NMLeatherKinkFair.com, nm-real.org.
2026-
SLaP! (Social Learn and Play)
SLaP! (Social Learn & Play) had its first event January 16th, 2026, as a joint effort between NM-REAL, Inc. (NM Respect Ethics Acceptance in Leather, Inc.) and Wired Events including Purgatory Dungeon and Spectrum Parties. Focus was upon an easy-going, low-stress monthly (3rd Friday) pansexual social with some education (6-8 pm), potential fantasy entertainment (8-9 pm), and a play party (8 pm-1am). It is held at the Purgatory/Spectrum facility and advertised by all partners in the event including the NMLeatherKinkFair.com and nm-real.org websites. Each event is intended to have two parallel classes from which to choose.
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Sources: Bear Mike, nm-real.org, nmleatherkinkfair.com, Spectrum Parties, Purgatory Dungeon.
2026-
Used & Abused: A Kinky Sale, Swap, & Social
Used & Abused: A Kinky Sale, Swap, & Social was originally conceived of by Michko as a means to bring the 18+ year-old kinky community together in a common space to foster communication and understanding amongst various groups and people, and at the same time create opportunity for a swap meet, fun space for social time and learning. Michko asked Bear Mike to organize the event through NM-REAL, Inc. Bear Mike created the event name and logos as a hopefully recurring event owned by NM-REAL, and teamed with Cecil who donated their space at at SpectrumABQ/Purgatory Dungeon for the inaugural event on Saturday August 22, 2026.
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The event was envisioned to have up to 14 30-minute info sessions that could be min classes, group information sessions, discussion groups, etc. They were intended to create a more fun event and increase draw to the item sales. Six people/groups initially signed up for these. MAsT held a food-enticing "Bites, Boards & Belonging" to learn about MaST. Ty the Gentleman had a session about male adult content creation. Violet_Hz held a session on "Edge Dancer - Playing on the Edge with Kink." Fallon talked about her new book, "Raw Book Discussion: The Beginner's BDSM Handbook For Aspiring Wise Kinksters." Pineapple talked about "Benefits of Yoga - Health & Kink." Sera Miles talked about " Soft Corners Facility" and how this space can benefit the kink and broader community.
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​​​​Sources: fetlife.com/events/2026/08/22/used-abused-a-free-kinky-sale-swap-social-yv798a <a>, Bear Mike <b>.
Other Events
A Santa Fe event, "Friends of Dorothy," (2000-), happens periodically on Fridays ever few months, more often in the summer, an event started by Ian Johnson, originally from the UK. It's focus is upon the gay community and their allies and does not focus on alternative lifestyles related to Leather and BDSM. They rotate between venues, hotels, clubs, etc., and draw hundreds of attendees, usually featuring free hors d'oeuvres and a cash bar. Attendance is usually around 150-300 people with a strong contingent of the lesbian community as well.
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Friends of Dorothy Albuquerque (2022-) started after the Pandemic, by Lucas Romero, because the Santa Fe event wasn't convenient or responsive to that city's needs. It follows a similar format to the Santa Fe version, brining 75-200 attendees.
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"Whips in the Park" has been a long-standing event often held in Roosevelt Park or other Albuquerque park that brings whip enthusiasts together.
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There has been increasing adoption of leather and kink themes by different venues after the 2020 pandemic, somewhat mixed with burlesque entertainment. A number of title events including Leather/Kink themes have been introduced at Sidewinders and Social Club as bar titles and also themes of drag shows. For the purposes of this history, these are considered as being influenced by our community rather than within the community. Examples: Mr Ms Mx Kink Pageant (2023) @ Sidewinders by Melissa Brown. Kinktopia (2023, 20204) - a leather/kink themed drag show at Albuquerque Social Club by Uncle Jaie.
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Burlesque culture in New Mexico crosses into the alternative lifestyle communities. Some of these include Acts of Enchantment, Albuquerque Burlesque by Unicorn Productions (2016-), Burlesque Noir, The New Mexico Burlesque Festival (2019-), Steph Sugar's Sandia Sugar Variety Shows & Burlesque.
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"Circus of Consent" - 2017 - Carnival-like weekend event with tastings, entertainment, at Sidewinders Ranch. organized by Daddy Bill.
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"Leather Curious" - Monthly new topic discussions and demos for novices, held by Albuquerque Leather Daddys.
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"Masters Academy BDSM" - 2019 - Multi-month skills education classes with graduation at NM Clubhouse, organized by Sir Magnum.
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"Southwest Leather Fair - Route 69" - held by the Albuquerque Leather Daddys yearly, in April or May, included performances, vendors, demos, auctions, mini fetish contests, and game booths.
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Note: The history compilation on this page is courtesy of and Copyright 2024-2026, Domum Corium Cordis, House of Leather Heart. Have more ideas to contribute or critique of these thoughts? Additional information or corrections to the history content? Let us know. Write head@houseofleatherheart.org.